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Taylor, Lily and Me
The value of women's writing from pain and happiness
Mar 29 • Kayte Ferris
Tops-Off Passion
On hobbies, and loving something so much you take your top off.
Jul 21, 2024 • Kayte Ferris
Everything I Never Wanted
Why is having a 'normal life' so bad?
May 23, 2024 • Kayte Ferris
Taylor Swift Has Shown We're All Crazy
What does this mean for us as writers and women?
Apr 26, 2024 • Kayte Ferris
Pick Your Storms
How we hate to take backwards steps, and why they might be the best steps.
Feb 21, 2024 • Kayte Ferris
An Unexpected Defence of Dating Apps
The unabridged story of how we met
Nov 9, 2023 • Kayte Ferris
My Outsides Don't Match My Insides
The small question of where identity comes from
Oct 16, 2023 • Kayte Ferris
Swimming Lessons
The dread of a holiday swim, and what it has to teach about control.
Sep 10, 2023 • Kayte Ferris
A Short Memoir of Friendship
Changing rooms and neediness and love.
Aug 16, 2023 • Kayte Ferris
The Meaning Of Pain
What we know when we feel hurt.
Jul 26, 2023 • Kayte Ferris
Ghost Story
Living with a literal ghost, and some metaphorical ones too.
Jun 30, 2023 • Kayte Ferris
At My Best Friend's House
Witnessing the tenderness absent in my own life.
Jun 11, 2023 • Kayte Ferris
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